a waste of a year and a half
The Mechanic and I split up about 20 minutes ago.
Yesterday was our year and a half anniversary. He forgot. I wouldn’t mind, but it is the half year ones that we agreed to make “the special day” rather than the year ones as those fall days away from the expenses of Christmas and his birthday. So, for our anniversary (as he hasn’t got any money as usual and as I am skint too this month), we ate a shop bought pizza. And it had chicken on it, the one pizza topping I asked him NOT to get.
On Monday, the court case starts. I look back at some of the things that have been going on lately (and none of it has been blogged, which might explain why some of you were so surprised at the rant about money the other day) and I just don’t want to find it in me to support them any more. How much do they expect from me?
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Oh fucksticks! now you must join the club of nuttycow, miss smidge and i as singletons
much love x
You ok? xxx
I hope you’re ok. xx
Hope you are ok. Sending my thoughts and hugs. xxx
What they said.
((hugs))
Aww crap – its an awful time breaking up – be strong
So very, very sorry. But; you will come back stronger – I’ve detected a change in your “character” over the last few months, reflected in your bloggings. But I’ve kept quiet about and not commented. I suppose you could call me a lurker but that can be blogged and commented about another time. You are still growing and learning and I would hope that you never consider the last year and a half a waste. I, and your other anonymous readers I suspect, if they are honest and brave enough to ever leave a comment, would agree that apart from enjoying your writing, learn about life from reading your blog and look what you’ve achieved over the last year and a half – a fantastic new job (you nailed that bugger!), the motorbikes etc etc. What next, go area hunting for your new flat, not house hunting – find the area first, then the house. Forget preconceived ideas about good and bad areas – they are every where.) Find an area for you then find the house or flat. Lastly, remember you are strong and you inspire us readers; you will come out of this for the better. I can’t take away the hurt and pain right now, but will just say that time is a great healer. Wipe away the tears, dry your eyes and move on. I’ll end by saying that I and my daughter wish you all the very best.
Hope you are OK. Look after yourself.
that’s v sad, i’m sorry.
what?! I thought you were engaged? I am so confused – - – - – I hope you’re ok though – hugs to you XXX
That’s sad to hear. I hope you’re ok.
HUGS, soupy. I hope the break up is based on more than a forgotten anniversary and a pizza topping, though. Money issues are notoriously difficult to navigate through in a relationship, so I guess that was the final nail.
Hope you’re ok. It’s not a waste of a year and a half, though. Things you do in life are never a waste.
Sorry to hear that (well sort of, but if he was making you miserable and angry then…). Anyway, I hope you are ok.
Oh love – I am sorry to hear about the breakup. That sucks. It does say something that your title is “a waste of a year and a half”? You know where I am.
xx
Say it ain’t so! Sorry love!
Thats horrible hon, i know how you feel, if you need a chat you have my email. Hugs xx